Don't bother with the hand controller, you need to connect the ASIAir directly to the mount, without the hand controller in the way. You will need a cable that goes directly from your mount to the USB port of the ASIAir. (Not sure which cable your particular mount will need but if it doesn't have a USB port then you need either an EQdir cable or those telephone ports cable). In both cases, the other end of the cable needs to connect to one of the USB ports of the ASIAir. Then, connection should be easy!